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What Makes a Gamer?

I’ve been thinking a great deal lately about what it means to be a gamer. I’ve started playing more games lately, and spending a considerable amount of time doing so. I use Fitocracy because I love the “leveling up” aspect. I use EpicWin as my to-do list for the same reason. I play Dungeons and Dragons (almost) weekly. I’ve been writing tons of posts about games. But I don’t consider myself a gamer. When I posted something along these lines on Twitter and Facebook I caught a bit of flack. Isn’t a gamer just someone who games?

So since I do game, and enjoy gamification of everyday type of things, why don’t I consider myself a gamer? For one, it’s because I’m so far behind on where I feel everyone else is. I got a PS3 several years back because I won one at a company holiday party. It never quite struck my fancy though. The controller was somewhat painful to use for extended periods with my achy wrists (hopefully this controller helps, look for a review soon), which also cuts out PC gaming (although if you have a recommended setup for PC gaming I’d love to hear it below). Playing the in-depth story games I enjoy at only an hour at a time doesn’t really work for me.  So I didn’t get really into gaming until I got an Xbox 360 over Christmas. This means I’m playing catch-up. I’m playing games that came out when Xbox 360 came out. Great financially, but it’s kind of like being the person who just now saw Batman Begins. You have no one to talk to about it, because everyone has moved on.

I’m also not a talented gamer. I play all my games on “easy” (or as I love in Deus Ex: Human Revolution “Tell me a story”). I had to play Mass Effect 3 on Xbox Live to get my “readiness rating” up high enough to take on the Reapers. I was awful, and that was on the “Bronze” level. I’m pretty sure I got cussed out by a 15 year old because he had to keep reviving me (is there a way to mute those jackasses btw?) I’m not sure I’m someone you’d want on your squad for a vital mission in a co-op game.

Given the fact that I play old games, and not well, I’m afraid that if I called myself a gamer that I’d be called “fake.” Now obviously I should not care what some strangers on the internet call me. But let’s face it; I do care what my readers think. If I didn’t, I probably wouldn’t blog. So I throw the question to you, what do you think makes someone a gamer?

Rant: The Decline of Split Screen Games

I’ve been gaming a lot more recently. It’s a mixed bag of good and bad. I’m not passively watching TV, I’m actively problem solving which is good. But I’ve also not been making things, which is bad. The Mass Effect Trilogy may be the reason I’m updating less here too (and by “may be” I mean “most certainly is”).  The other down side is that gaming seems to have become a mostly a one person per console activity. Most multiplayer games are designed to be played on Xbox Live or the PSN. While these options are great, I miss the “lets hang out and play games” aspect of gaming. Plus, I’d like to game and hang out with my husband. He might be more understanding of how much Xbox I play if we were spending time together doing so.

I realized how rare good split screen games were becoming when I picked up Little Big Planet Karting. It was partially my fault for not glancing at the back, but I guess I had assumed it’d be like Mario Kart. Split screen two player, race around the track type of game. Wrong. It was single player unless you were online, in which case then you could race other players.

I do not like this trend. I think back on all the good times I’ve had playing games sitting next to my friends and wonder how long that’s going to be around. Even recently, I went over to Claire’s to play Dungeons and Dragons only to find out everyone had bailed at sometime between when I left my place and arrived at hers. So what did we do? Claire, her boyfriend, and I sat down around the Wii and played Super Mario Brothers Wii and chatted. I got to laugh as Claire got frustrated by my endless jumping on her head and knocking her back down ropes she just climbed. It was just fun.

I understand that playing split screen is kind of a bummer, but we did it with way smaller TVs with way lower resolution. I think we’d be able to manage somehow now. There are some gems still out there, I asked over at Co-Op Heroes for some advice and the thread was full of options. But as time goes on, I wonder how much longer it will last.

Because sometimes, I just want to laugh as I jump on the head of the friend sitting next to me.

5 on Friday: Valentine’s Day Gifts for Geek Girls

Flowers and chocolate, while appreciated, lack a bit of thought. It’s something you can swing by the drugstore on the way home and pick up. If you really want to make an impression on the geek girl in your life, try some of these options. Most of these come from various Etsy shops, so you can support the little guy

1) I Know print ($30, Etsy) - If your heart didn’t melt when Leia told Han “I love you” and he replied “I know,” then I’m pretty sure your heart is a block of pure carbonite.  The romantic sentiment, the pink and purple, every thing about this print just screams Valentine’s Day. For bonus points, get it framed. You can pick up a cheap frame at craft stores for under $10.

2) Companion Cube Cookie Jar ($30, ThinkGeek) – Nothing says non-judgmental love more than a companion cube. Your cube is always there when you need it. Someone to talk to about your long days of testing. The companion cube is always there to listen, and never complains. Just make sure the cookies aren’t a lie, and fill it up with her favorite.

3) Pixel Heart Earrings ($45, Etsy) - I have a pair very similar to these, and wear them everywhere and with everything. They’re fun enough to wear with t-shirts, but the silver makes them nice enough looking for a dressier occasion. I wear them to work, to practice, and even to my cousin’s wedding. Plus since they’re sterling, they won’t make sensitive ears all irritated.

4) Pretty Dice and Bag – Sorry there’s no link here, but I’m sure most of you already know where to find dice. Get her a pretty set. Glitter, iridescent, or pearlized are all great options. See if you can find her favorite color. Dice have the benefit of being one of those things you really can’t have too many of. As long as she likes tabletop games, it’s a pretty safe bet. Wrap it all up in a cute bag from Etsy.

5) Stamped Bracelets ($18, Etsy) -  There are as many of these stamped bracelets as there are fandoms. Find the one for hers. This shop even does custom (although you may be cutting it close), so if her fandom isn’t represented, you can create one for her.

Project time: Whiteboard Table

I have this need to reinvent myself with the seasons. There’s something about the world changing outside that makes me want to evolve inside as well. Wardrobe, hobbies, and, at the moment, my apartment. (Although, if anyone has suggestions for learning archery, I’m all ears. It’s one of my spring/summer goals to become Legolas/Katniss haha..). Unfortunately, being on a grad student budget and living in the Midwest in January is counterproductive to my need to throw open the windows and repaint everything in sight.

However, a small project is totally doable. I’ve been wanting to paint my dining room table for a while, it’s a hand me down from my grandparents and while it’s pretty, I want to make it my own. I settled on painted the bottom grey and the top white. But that seemed too boring. This table is used mostly for art projects and our weekly D&D sessions and just repainting was not enough. Chalkboard paint was not an option because of the mess and the fact that I hate chalk. After an hour wishing whiteboard paint existed I realized that you can find anything on Google and whatdya know- it does! Project planned. Lets do this!

I picked up whiteboard paint and high density foam rollers at the home improvement store. There was an option of getting a magnetic primer, but I decided that was not necessary for a table, plus I’m lazy. We started out by removing the legs and putting the table on the balcony on top of an old sheet. (No sanding inside, too much clean up!) We used a coarse sandpaper first and a finer one to finish smoothing the surface.

The boyfriend sanding the table- I have no problems with power tools, but we borrowed the sander from his grandpa. I figured it was better for him to break it than me.

The boyfriend sanding the table- I have no problems with power tools, but we borrowed the sander from his grandpa. I figured it was better for him to break it than me.

The directions say to prime darker surfaces first, but once again, I’m lazy. I also decided not to waste my time with painters tape since I would be sanding paining the rest of the table later.

Couldn't find a paint stirrer...cardboard works, right?!

Couldn’t find a paint stirrer…cardboard works, right?!

First coat- the high density foam roller allows the paint to be as smooth as possible.

First coat- the high density foam roller allows the paint to be as smooth as possible.

One coat down, four to go! Maybe I should have primed?

One coat down, four to go! Maybe I should have primed?

Adding the final coat!

Adding the final coat!

Table finished! Also, I have terrible drawing skills.

Table finished! Also, I have terrible drawing skills.

After 5 coats of the paint (maybe I should  have primed?) and 3 days of curing, I have my very own white board table! I’m planning on painting the legs and sides of the table when the weather warms up- I hate the cold, plus the paint would not dry as well. My biggest tip would be to make sure the surface is as smooth as possible. We’re talking about doing a light sanding and another coat in the future for an even smoother surface.
The paint was dry enough to use the table after 24 hours, but the directions said to wait 3 days before writing on the surface. Like a true geek, I had to test this. I would definitely recommend waiting unless you want a slight stain on your surface.

Now if I could only get the BBT guys over to draw on it……

Dungeons and Dragons: Choosing a Paragon Path

We’ve made it to level 11! Which means it is time to level up and choose a paragon path. I finally have my own set of D&D Books, so I was able to take my time and read as I was leveling up this time, instead of rushing through it and just picking stuff. I chose to be a Time Bender, because my character already has a lot of telekinetic powers and that path suits telekinetic. Also, because I want to be the Doctor.

I'm a real tabletop gamer now!

I’m a real tabletop gamer now!

Going through the books has given me a much better perspective on what goes into making a character. When I created the character I’m playing now, our DM created her for the most part. Played off of the strengths already in the group, and where I could fit in. Everyone was already at level 9 when I got there and I just wanted to get set up and get started. As a result, I’m not particularly attached to my character. For a comparison, I started playing Mass Effect and I am completely attached to my Shepherd and the relationships I have with my crew. I have a clear vision of who I am and who I want to be. I don’t experience this with my D&D character.

I don’t know when we restart with new characters, but when we do I’m definitely going to spend more time putting her together. Building her strengths and balancing her weaknesses. Have a defined personality, and know who she is. I think that would give me much more of a personal stake in the game and make it a lot more fun to play.

Dungeons and Dragons: Absolute Silliness

Usually I’d have a post describing where we were in our quest, and what I have learned about my character and how the game is played. I also don’t usually offer to help taste test my friend Claire’s cranberry-orange infused vodka (which is very good for what it’s worth). I’ve also started playing Star Wars the Old Republic, so I’m sure you’ll understand this might be a shorter post.

In addition to the aforementioned taste-testing, everyone was in a silly mood. With the upcoming holidays and the end of finals for nearly everyone I play with, we were just being goofy. Gage, who was spying on the bad guys hideout, threw as a rock with the message “wait” so we rolled to throw it back with the word “roger” written on it. Claire and I also had an in-depth discussion about which  Hogwarts house our guys belong to. Which gives you an idea of the vibe of last night.

When we stopped playing last night, we were entering the dungeon under the bad-guys hideout. So my next post will detail my first experience exploring a dungeon.

Dungeons and Dragons: The Quest Continues

This die was super lucky last night. Got me a crit!

This die was super lucky last night. Got me a crit!

Last night was my third Dungeons and Dragons night, and another day where we got more into the story at hand. We started and ended the night with story development, which is giving the game a lot more purpose in my eyes. It seemed before hand, we were just wondering around getting beat up in the forest. We started at a town and tried to figure out if they knew anything about the stolen relic we were trying to find. We were pointed to an evil town, and started making our way.

We had an encounter in the forest in which I had probably the best luck I’ve had yet and even got in a crit with a daily. It was pretty exciting for me. I got to use my Orb I got last week, get maximum damage, and find out how exactly a crit works. After probably our quickest encounter since we’ve been playing, we ended up at the evil town and had a look around.

We went into the tavern, spoke to the barkeeper, and had a look around. We had thought about intimidating him, but I thought we should do a perception check for weapons which everyone agreed was a good idea (yay! I’m learning how this all works!). We waited for the bar to be empty and found out about a gang that might have what we’re looking for. We ended the night stealthily waiting for a way to get into the gang’s hideout.

As I mentioned last week I’ve been thinking more about who my character is, and what motivates her. I read a really good post on the Shardmind, and have decided my character is definitely neutral. I’m still not sure where in neutral. I usually play a good guy, but my group already has two Lawful Good players, and a few Chaotic Neutral. I found this super handy alignment chart based on Arrested Development. And I’m a leaning towards Neutral Evil. Mainly because we don’t have any evil, and after ending up in the evil town it seems like that could be handy. So as I head into next week, I’m wondering how you decided your character’s alignment? Did you choose before hand, or did you just see how things turned out?

Entering the World of Dungeons and Dragons

I’m learning how to play Dungeons and Dragons for the first time. I went in with no idea what to expect, or how to prepare. I’m going to document my journey for anyone else who finds themselves in this position. Last night was my second game night. I’m combining the first two nights into one entry since I didn’t think about writing about my experience until now. I apologize in advance if I get the jargon wrong.

Most the people I know who play role playing games got into them in high school or college and are well versed in the ins-and-outs of how the games are played. I missed out on all of that, and started getting an interest a few years ago. Being surrounded by so many people who play, one would think it’d be easy to find a game to join and learn to play. This however, was not the case for me. The groups I knew were well established, and deep into complex games. It really wasn’t the best place for beginner like myself to be introduced to the game. So I was incredibly excited when a friend posted on Facebook that her group had room for anyone who wanted to join a “casual” game.

I showed up having no idea what to expect. The only experience I’ve had with had with role playing games is single player video games. I didn’t even know what I wanted to do within the group (apparently Jedi is not an option). I do know I always play the good guy, and I tend to avoid melee attacks. Based on that our DM assigned me a Psionic character since we didn’t have one, and they matched how I like to play. Specifically, I’m playing as a Shardmind.

The longest part of the process setting up my character. I was given tips on how to set up my strengths based my my class, and then I got to pick out my dailies, utilities, and at will skills. I was bumped up to be level with the people I was playing with so I wouldn’t be instantly killed.  After that, we were off!

Our first night we had an encounter with four giants. My character was useless against the giants. I got one hit in when I rolled a natural 20, but other than that, my attacks were worthless against them. The highlight though was that I was able to escape the battle unscathed and level up. It was a long encounter that took the entire night, but we were able to make it to the town we were heading towards.

The second night we started at the gates of the town. We were trying to get the guards to let us in, but we were accused of knowing something about a missing relic. None of us had enough charisma to get them to believe we knew nothing about it. This is where I started understanding how the role playing and story aspect worked. Our first night had been all encounter so I really didn’t have to think too much about how my character, or other characters,  would react in any situation other than “don’t get killed.” (Well, after the encounter the rouge cared about nothing but getting the gold from them.) But now I got to see our Lawful Good character try to negotiate with the guard, and then decide that we should all go to find the stolen relic.

We had another night long encounter (where I nearly died several times) but what I’m really starting to think about is how my character should react to things. I was thinking I’d be Chaotic Good, but I’m really not sure how that would work. Or reading up on Shardminds, if that’s really how that race is aligned anyway. They seem more neutral than anything. It will be interesting to see as we interact more with NPCs to find out more how the story works. Personally, I’m finding that way more interesting than encounters.

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